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Pain during ejaculation can be distressing. For some, this condition may be persistent or intense. Also referred to as male dysorgasmia, painful ejaculation is a common problem that affects about 10 percent of individuals with penises. It can occur in abrupt, short episodes (acute) or can be recurrent (chronic). Other terms that are sometimes used to refer to painful ejaculation include dysejaculation, orgasmalgia, or odynorgasmia.
Painful ejaculation can result from a variety of causes, including infections, prostate issues, nervous system disorders, and certain medications. Due to this, seeking medical attention is crucial to identify the specific cause and receive appropriate treatment.
By Able Health I Medically reviewed by Dr. Alireza Estedlal
Page last reviewed: February 2024 I Next review due: February 2026
Painful ejaculation, although common, is usually not reported by people with penises. The discomfort can happen during one or both phases of ejaculation:
Generally, dysorgasmia implies discomfort in the penis and urethra. However, the pain can affect (or sometimes remain confined to) the scrotum, testicles, rectum, lower abdomen, or perineum (the area between the genitals and anus). Apart from the pain, there might be the presence of blood in the semen, a condition known as hematospermia. What sets dysorgasmia apart from other kinds of pain in the male reproductive system is that the discomfort directly results from ejaculation and orgasm.
Many factors contribute to painful ejaculation, and sometimes the cause remains unidentified (idiopathic). Even though the causes are rarely life-threatening, the condition can severely affect one’s quality of life, sexual function, and self-esteem. These are the six potential causes that doctors often look at when symptoms of male dysorgasmia are present:
These conditions also have noninfectious causes, such as chemical irritants, previous urinary tract surgery, and prolonged horse riding or cycling. Regardless of the contributing factors, inflammation occurring in these reproductive organs can easily lead to pain during ejaculation.
Also, muscle relaxants with a chemical structure similar to tricyclic antidepressants, like Flexeril (cyclobenzaprine), have been reported to trigger painful ejaculation.
Since male dysorgasmia is nonspecific with a number of causes, diagnosis often begins with a physical exam and a review of your medical history. The doctor will also ask about the symptoms you have and any medicines you are taking. The physical exam will likely include an examination of your genitals, and probably a digital rectal exam (DRE). DRE involves inserting a gloved finger into the rectum to assess the prostate gland.
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Book an appointmentDepending on the outcomes, more tests may be required.
Painful ejaculation diagnosis is usually done by a urologist, who is an expert specialising in diseases and conditions of the urinary tract and male reproductive system.
How to treat painful ejaculation Painful ejaculation treatment often varies depending on its triggering factors. Addressing the root cause usually improves the symptoms, and sometimes, no further treatment is required apart from time. There are limited direct treatments for male dysorgasmia that consistently provide positive results. However, if the cause is unknown, the doctor might recommend muscle relaxants, anticonvulsant drugs, pelvic floor muscle exercises, or opioid medicines to help alleviate the symptoms.
The table below outlines the available treatments used to address the underlying causes of male dysorgasmia:
Underlying Cause | Type | Treatment Options |
Lower urinary tract infections |
Bacterial (most common) |
Oral antibiotics such as ceftriaxone or penicillin |
Viral |
Oral antivirals such as Zovirax (acyclovir) | |
Fungal |
Oral antifungals such as Diflucan (fluconazole) | |
Inflammatory conditions |
Orchitis |
-Oral antibiotics. -Oral NSAIDs to ease swelling and pain. -Cold compress to testicles to minimize swelling. -Supporting the testicles with a jockstrap. |
Prostatitis |
-Oral antibiotics. -Oral alpha-blocker medicines such as Flomax (tamsulosin) to ease the bladder neck. -Oral NSAIDs or Tylenol (acetaminophen) to reduce pain and swelling. | |
Urethritis |
-Orally antibiotics. -Drinking enough fluids | |
Epididymitis |
Oral antibiotics. -Cold compress to the testicles. -Oral NSAIDs to ease pain and swelling. -Using a jockstrap | |
Enlarged prostate |
-Oral 5-alpha reductase inhibitors like Proscar (finasteride). -Flomax (tamsulosin). -Minimally invasive procedures includingtransurethral resection of the prostate (TURP). - Prostatectomy (surgery to reduce the size of the prostate). | |
Obstructive conditions |
Urethral stricture |
-Urinary catheters. -Urethral stents. -Minimally invasive procedures including urethral dilation (urethrotomy). -Urethroplasty (surgical reconstruction of the urethra). |
Ejaculatory duct obstruction |
-Minimally invasive procedures such as transurethral resection of the ejaculatory ducts (TURED) | |
Seminal vesicle stones |
-Minimally invasive procedures such as transurethral seminal vesiculoscopy (TRU-SVS) to eliminate the stone | |
Surgical factors such as vasectomy or inguinal hernia repair |
-Mostly watching and waiting, as pain often gets better with time. -Oral NSAIDs or Tylenol (acetaminophen) to help with longer-lasting pain. | |
Pudendal neuropathy |
-Oral pain relievers such as NSAIDs and opioids. -Pelvic floor muscle exercises. -Cortisone injections around the pudendal nerve to ease nerve inflammation. -Botox (botulinum) injections to ease muscles near the pudendal nerve. -Surgical decompression of the pudendal nerve | |
Medicines |
Antidepressants |
Stopping the medication often improves the symptoms. |
While male dysorgasmia is a worrying problem, it usually does not necessitate emergency care. However, a lower urinary tract infection can become serious if it spreads to the upper urinary tract organs (such as the ureters and kidneys). If not treated, these infections can result in kidney damage, acute kidney failure, or sepsis (a possibly life-threatening inflammatory response to infection).
Seek a doctor as soon as possible if the urinary tract infectionsymptoms occur along with more severe signs like:
Painful ejaculation is generally an indication of a bigger problem requiring treatment. Although you might hesitate to discuss the issue with a doctor or assume it isn’t serious, evading a diagnosis can result in complications if the underlying disorder is untreated. For instance, untreated STIs can cause male infertility in some cases.
Even when the cause is unidentified, symptom management under a urologist’s care can enhance a person’s sex life as well as overall well-being.